This must go without even saying. However there are quite a lot of people who feels that nagging is the best solution to get what they need. Really, it's not.

Your nagging, complaining and acting unpleasant will only drive him away from you even faster. If you make him uncomfortable, he will just want to get away from you every time he sees you. Be nice and pleasant whenever you are around him. If you can't, just fake it. If you are good to him, the previous problems might not seem so important as off now. You might ask yourself why weren't you like this before when you were together.

You can't alter your past. But remember one thing. Once you win back your ex boyfriend and you are together. Point it out to him that you took him for granted. He probably did the same too, but he might not admit it now anyways. Tell him you love him very much and this will never happen again.

There could be few other questions that you may be thinking of right now. They could be disastrous or they may work. Let's find out.

It doesn't matter what sort of tricks and tactics you are thinking of, even if you think that it's not harmful-just forget it now. It could be the most innocent looking lie or exaggeration which may backfire you later. There is no use of getting our ex back for a while only to lose him when he finds the truth later.

But if you are doing it just to make your ex boyfriend feel jealous, then it's really not fair to your date. Such games don’t work most of the times. The best thing is to be honest with you and with others. That way you will have a better chance of winning your ex boyfriend back.

Ok, this is the hardest situation you need to overcome. It is difficult, not only because you have to win your ex back but also make him choose you over his current girlfriend. He will be focused on his new relationship and you might not be his priority right now. You need to calm down and make him see how wonderful you are and what he will be missing by not being with you.

These steps are just the beginning to help you get your ex boyfriend back. If you really want to get back with your ex, you will need a step by step plan to make it happen. Ryan Hall has put down a great system "Pull your ex back" to help you out to win your ex back from any kind of miserable situation.